Your response to your boyfriend talking about his ex will depend on how deeply the talk worries you and how often he brings it up. maybe he is, but a small part inside him isnt. Once he had talked about wanting me to come see him at work in conversation, which gave me an idea. The talk makes you feel confused, insecure and jealous.

Archived. yes that is rude of him to bring her up seems like he might not be over her . "Their thoughts are either actively preoccupied with their ex or they’re putting in overtime to push …
It's common to feel insecure, jealous and confused by this. A guy who talks about his ex all the time can shake even the healthiest relationship. Today while we were eating, i was just fed up with it! Well, as the day went on, it started to bother me more and more. Boyfriend keeps bringing up his ex. Even the best of relationships can be tested when a guy continually brings up his ex.
talk to your boyfriend about it. u/bittyredboo. He and his ex girlfriend broke up 3-4 years ago. If you're over somebody, you don't like everything they post. Almost everyday he brings up something good, or negative about her. Even if he's mad at his ex and complains, the fact that they're on his mind is a red flag. If your boyfriend keeps bringing up his ex, that could be a sign, he still has feelings for them. If his ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend gets a new car, he wants to get a new car. It's another sign that the ex is on his … If he finds out that his ex-girlfriend and her new boyfriend are engaged, he starts talking about marriage with you. Me and my boyfriend have basically been together for 2 years, on and off. The other day I decided to surprise my boyfriend while he was working by just showing up. 7 months ago. its the best thing you can do. So i told him not to bring her up again, or we wil break up. tell him what you feel, in this case, that you are uncomfortable with it, you really dont care about anything having to do with his ex, stop bringing her up etc. 1. Close. If he brings up his ex in comparison to the things you like or don't like to do/wear/eat, that means that for some reason or another, his ex is on his mind while he's with you. He's active in his ex's social media. If his ex-girlfriend gets promoted at her job, he puts pressure on you to take your career to the next level. Posted by. If he keeps bringing up his ex, should I be worried?