Have you ever asked yourself those questions? Although, i have been so unlucky in the past that I just felt like you. Let’s change it to “Why don’t I ever find luck” and recognise that it’s the finding part that matters. Why am I so unlucky in love?. Hi guys, My reply might be helpful because i passed the same stage. Whatever the reason may be, we’ve all had that moment when we feel like Cupid has a personal vendetta against us. “Why am I so unlucky?” is a thought a great many of us frequently have, and it’s not far wrong, it just needs a little tweaking. 27 right now and committed to a girl who loves me. And, sadly, we can’t vent without sounding like a brat, or sounding desperate. If we are to be lucky, we must be good at finding, discovering and spotting. Here are 15 things everyone who’s been unlucky in love wish they could say, but can’t. You're not alone.